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April 2017 Moderator Meet: the aftermath

April 18, 2017

It’s our first moderator meeting after the departure of the old guards. An aftermath that spells start over. I am the old gurl in the group and the generation gap is big. I saw one of the gurls grow up and now living full time as a transwoman. SGGURLS began when the phone and camera were two different devices and phones were bricks. One of the mods commented that I still look the same as 10 years ago. (LOL jialat no progress).

Key on the night’s agenda were what had happened and what’s the splinter group doing. Typical of me, I address the simple one first.
What the splinter group is doing? I really don’t know and don’t care. There are many groups before and after the birth of SGGURLS. Here’s a listing contemporary trans groups: http://oogachaga.com/congregaytion/website/detail/7
Groups are created when people gravitate to each other. When the chemistry is gone, people go their own way. That’s just life. The more groups that exist in Singapore or SE Asia, the better it is for the LGBT community. Diversity means more options.

SGGURLs event if organized by me will always be indoors, fully airconditioned, quiet places with enough ambient music. Of course, some of the members out grew my taste.

The new football club does BBQ and beer guzzling events, Super for people who love sweat, outdoors and getting drunk. I am a lounge lizard and outdoors …naaahhhh. Beer? Naaaahhhhh.

Prior to football club was the Secret Agent Group of gurls who parties in high end clubs. LOL, ya I know about the not so secret agent club and their secret changing place in Parkway Center, right Agent K?

There was also a group of gurls who set up an apartment in Paya Lebar. For a nominal fee, gurls can dress up, rent a locker to store their stuff. That was a good idea but with high rental in Singapore it’s got to cater to a much wider audience to be commercially viable.

SIS is an activist group set up artist Marla Bendini and talented designer Trish (designer of our SGGURLS) group. SIS champions transgender rights and represents us in PinkDot.

My last mention was the group that organized the trans Pagent. Again great idea but after the first pagent, the organizers (most of are from SGGURLS) fizzled out.

What happened in SGGURLS that caused the old guards to be ejected? There were 1 co-founder (Adaline) and 5 gurls ejected.  Co-founder Adaline was expelled, for two reasons and both related the SGGURL events she organized. The first was the BBQ event which she promoted with much fanfare, later said was cancelled but actually took place. The second was SGGURLS March meet which she had grandly advertised, on the day of the event abandoned and lied to me that she had attend to something urgent. Something urgent meant catastrophy that involved the emergency room. Being in some bar in Golden Mile with our new homies does not qualify as catastrophic. The other 5 gurls who engaged in cyber bullying were also expelled. These explusions can be temporary if the gurls acknowledge their mistake and don’t repeat them. To err is human and to forgive is divine.

As the founder of SGGURLS, the problem is squarely on my breasts. An absent leader is not much of a leader. This will continue to plague SGGURLS as work eats up my whole life. I do wish I can just up and leave to correct the biggest problem in my life: being born in the wrong gender. Unfortunately, SRS is not the end of the journey and thinking of the journey after next keeps me up at night toling away. Being just a pretty face won’t pay the bills. This is third team running SGGURLS. Maybe third time is the charm and my successor is in plain sight.

April 2017 Moderator Meet: the aftermath

April 18, 2017

It’s our first moderator meeting after the departure of the old guards. An aftermath that spells start over. I am the old gurl in the group and the generation gap is big. I saw one of the gurls grow up and now living full time as a transwoman. SGGURLS was started when the phone and camera were two different devices and the phones looked like a brick. One of the mods commented that you still look the same as 10 years ago. (LOL jialat no progress).

Key on the night’s agenda were that happened and what the splinter group is doing. Typical of me, I address the simple one first.
What the splinter group is doing? I really don’t know and don’t care. There are many groups before and after the birth of SGGURLS. Here’s a listing contemporary trans groups: http://oogachaga.com/congregaytion/website/detail/7
Groups are created when people gravitate to each other. When the chemistry is gone, people go their own way. That’s just life. The more groups that exist in Singapore or SE Asia, the better it is for the LGBT community. Diversity means more options.

SGGURLs event if organized by me will always be indoors, fully airconditioned, quiet places with enough ambient music. Of course, some of the members out grew my taste.

The new football club does BBQ and beer guzzling events, Super for people who love sweat, outdoors and getting drunk. I am a lounge lizard and outdoors …naaahhhh. Beer? Naaaahhhhh.

Prior to football club was the Secret Agent Group of gurls who parties in high end clubs. LOL, ya I know about the not so secret agent club and their secret changing place in Parkway Center, right Agent K?

There was also a group of gurls who set up an apartment in Paya Lebar with a nominal fee where gurls can dress up, rent a locker to store their stuff. That was a good idea but with high rental in Singapore it’s got to cater to a much wider audience to be commercially viable.

SIS is an activist group set up artist Marla Bendini and talented designer Trisha (designer of our SGGURLS) group. SIS champions transgender rights and represents us in PinkDot.

My last mention was the group that organized the trans Pagent. Great idea but after the first pagent, the organizers (most of are from SGGURLS) fizzled out.

What happened in SGGURLS that caused the old guards to be ejected? There were 1 co-founder (Adaline) and 5 gurls ejected.  Co-founder Adaline was expelled, for two reasons and they are related to the two SGGURL events she organized. The first was the BBQ event which she promoted with much fanfare, later said was cancelled but actually took place. The second was SGGURLS March meet which she had grandly advertised, on the day of the event abandoned and lied to me that she had attend to something urgent. Something urgent meant a catastrophy that involved the emergency room. Being in some bar in Golden Mile does not qualify as catastrophic. The other 5 members were the gurls who engaged in cyber bullying. These explusions can be temporary if the gurls acknowledges their mistake and don’t them. To err is human and to forgive is divine.

As the founder of SGGURLS, the problem is squarely on my breasts. An absent leader is not much of a leader. This will continue to plague SGGURLS as work eats up my whole life. I do wish I can just up and leave to correct the biggest problem in my life: being born in the wrong gender. Unfortunately, SRS is not the end journey and thinking of the journey after next keeps me up at night toling away. Being just a pretty face won’t pay the bills. This is third team that is running SGGURLS. Maybe third time is the charm and my successor is in plain sight.20170418_013.jpg

A kinky and tranny Saturday

November 16, 2010

A kinky and tranny Saturday

nicolesingslave 2 hrs ago

13 November 2010
San Francisco

A kinky and tranny Saturday photo 1

I had planned for a lazy Saturday but it was going to be my version of “sleepless in Seattle” in SF. Tranny and kinky events filled my calendar faster than a surfer can mount a surfboard. First stop for the day, lunch and my first SOJ munch. Will I have the stomach to eat and drink mead with total strangers in this kinky meet? When Sunny smiled on the private deck of the Thirsty Bear, I was beguiled. I was at home with the jovial bunch and counted myself fortunate to be in likes of Sunny, Charles, “Terse”, Mitch, Jay and the shy ones. We compare and exchanged notes. It was interesting to find similar challenges and issues.

 A kinky and tranny Saturday photo 2

I popped in Wicked Grounds to an event called SCREWUP: BDSM for trans and queers (http://www.screwup.info/). The title said it all and my momma told me to keep quiet if I can’t say anything nice.

A kinky and tranny Saturday photo 3

A few face pics in the cage and it was time to hightail out of the cafe for more of the SF life spice. I stopped by the Rickshaw Stop, a suppossedly great local lesbian watering hole. Damn, it’s gate was wedged tighter than a tampon in ovulating season. No reason to panic as this had not turned out to be the “promised” good time for my guest from Tokyo. 

A kinky and tranny Saturday photo 4

It was back to Marlena’s where one can count on no cover charge, quality drinks and good company or a nice Italian restaurant by the Marina.

Lucky 3, Bad Ass Gurls, Wicked Tattoo Party

September 19, 2010

Lucky 3, Bad Ass Gurls, Wicked Tattoo Party

nicolesingslave Sep 13, 2010
18th Septh 2010

Singapore

Lucky 3, Bad Ass Gurls, Wicked Tattoo Party photo 1

With the Chinese Ghost Month just over and the gates of hell shut tight banishing the hungry ghosts for another year, the host with the most, Mystevious, rang the party bell. The revellers of middle earth answered, congregating at Alcova for the hottest bods in town. Cougars, gender benders, male strippers, paegent winners and hot beavers drank, rubbed bodies and danced with gusto to the beat of the DJ maestro.    

Lucky 3, Bad Ass Gurls, Wicked Tattoo Party photo 2

Our very special birthday gurl, the sassy Trish, with her party posse filled up the VIP booth. Two became three, and three became eighteen. The party gene had set afire the trans party scene. The cake came, candles were lit and songs flowed befitting a starlit queen.

Lucky 3, Bad Ass Gurls, Wicked Tattoo Party photo 3
 Mystevious steamed up the glass panes by crowning the man with hot gleaning muscles as the hottest man in Singapore.

Lucky 3, Bad Ass Gurls, Wicked Tattoo Party photo 4

For more information on Singapore’s transgender group, please visit us at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Meeting a local celebrity

August 22, 2010

Meeting a local celebrity 

nicolesingslave 41 mins ago

Singapore, 21st August 2010.

It was an honour to be personally invited by the bodilicious and blogger celebrity Fauzi Rassull to the hottest party in town. The designers of the YOG torch & cauldron toucheddown in Alcova just in time to watch Mistevious flex her blue boa.

 

Mistevious was her usual mischevious self pumping up the floor with her humorous antics. When she invited some hot babes up the tight stage floor, nitrous set the party alight.

The stagelight went off and the sexpots brought the roof down strutting their oh-so-tight kumquats. The aircondition could not quell the bastion of jumping hot bodies.

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