When can you get three gurls to do blow jobs?

January 21, 2017
When it’s their birthdays.
SGGURLS 2017 January meet started with the celebration of three gurls birthdays: Adaline, Nic, Regina


2017 started well. It’s good to see our sistas once a month and to know that everyone is okay. Cake and wine on a Friday night with good friends. The best way to spend the night.

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A few admirers sent me a some angry notes last night during the meet which I realized only next day. I can’t help you if dare not come in and meet the gurls. None of the SGGURLS moderators can help you forge courage. In our group the admirers who meet us become our friends. Friends have no labels. Whilst sex is the primary driver of why an admirer approaches us, being friends first is the key. Admirers are always welcome to SGGURLS meets. During the meets, don’t expect us to answer your messages or come escort you unless you are the Sultan of Blink blink.

I love my bear bear from Adaline.

Home of SGGURLS http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Current Location: Singapore
Current Mood: great


December 24, 2016

Xmas wouldn’t be the same without your best friends.That is all one needs to remember the great times in 2016. A smile, a hug, a kiss. They are fragant petals in our lives that makes awesome memories.
Adaline prepared all these gifts for our friends who attended our Xmas meet. Esther brought wine. The remaining surprise Xmas gifts are still with me. If you would like them, we may have a meet next Friday.
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The face of SGGURLS has changed over times but what has remained is friendship. Like any successful groups, there must be love. A mission. Passion. SGGURLS mission has been to create space and time for trans to come out and tell the world “I exist”. Its not a difficult mission but one that is thankless. The moderators of SGGURLS don’t get paid and often become a lightning rod for many difficult times especially when members wage war with each other. Other than the simple mission, there is no agenda.

From all of us in SGGURLS, merry Xxxmas and Happy 2017. May you be in love all the time.

A matchmaker that found her fantastic four….

December 13, 2016
Tinder didn’t work for my friends so I thought I play the matchmaker. I found a few nice admirers that would be a perfect fit for a few of my friends in SGGURLS.

Not to one who introduces half wits, I had to meet them first. I usually don’t date men and when I do it’s as rare as spotting a waterspout. 2016 is an exception. I found my fantastic four who treated me like a princess…lol eventhough I am more of a queen.

I have a lot of fun with my fantastic four each are super in their own ways. My first this year was JL. JL is a darling with a lot of heart. Jas is my BDSM playmate. He’s got me all these pleasure toys. RC is a kind dashing gentleman who can get any woman he wants but he chose me. Finally, RC last night. I felt like I was with Dwayne Johnson (aka the Rock). It’s nice to have dates that literally tower over me. I think all four are about 6’2++ and you know that that means ladies. This is still a PG blog so let’s just leave the bedroom scenes out.

I hope I don’t have to choose and maybe I am loose definitely not at the bottom but more on a traditional role of just hanging out with one mate. I guess no members of the fastastic four wants any of my gurls. 😦

Yesterday I met SM. Wow that’s two for two in a fortnight. We went to two of my favorite hangouts. I love friends who are comfortable to be seen with me in public. With heels I am slower than a snail unless I am jaywalking from DYMK to Backstage. I bumped into Ben whom I have not seen for more than ten years. He’s running Backstage and still in touch with Terrence whom I very fond of.

P.S. I have a super fan in Perth. I hope he is okay. I haven’t heard from him for quite some time.
SGGURLS is Singapore transgender central. The group was started by a few of us gurls namely Adaline, Hendrika (botanist extraoridnaire), Kayla, Ivy Sr, Ivy Jr, Destynee, Trish (a talented ad guru, our logo designer & you should hire her if you need a marketing expert). http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Current Location: singapore
Current Mood: happyhappy

Friday’s Curry Gurl  

December 3, 2016
2016 has slipped by faster than a slippery eel. I was looking forward to seeing JL in my office but he had a client the last minute. I got my finger working …on my computer… not diddling myself if that’s what I got you thinking. Friday was shaping to be a bust with my gurlfriend Esther not feeling well from taking too much spiro. RC messaged me that he can pick me up from my place and Esther green light our meet in 8B BQ for F’s meetup session. $5.00 drinks for ladies. That is the only reason Esther and I frequent F’s meetup session. Red, White, Vodka w Soda, beer..for S$5.00.

I’m meeting RC for the first time. I thought RC was Ricky Chan. But he turned out better than Jacky Chan. RC is any ladies’ dream: tall, suave, down to earth, easy to converse. Eventually we found ourselves in Dhoom. We couldn’t go in the last time because it was reserved for Indian gents. LOL with RC, we got in.

The girls in Dhoom were super gorgeous. It was like a page out of Bollywood. The drinks however were super super EX. I fainted when I saw how much they charged for a jug of Tiger. I didn’t take any pics for the night save this two.

Nic Lave
Singapore’s first blond Ladyboy and proud of it.
SGGURLS, Singapore’s transgender forum, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

A little tied up on a Monday …

October 31, 2016

SGGURLS 9th birthday  

October 29, 2016
468th meet

Ditch the Date, Hardrock, Orchard Tower and a face from the past

October 22, 2016
An admirer picked up from my home. This is the second “date” we’ve had. I said I wanted to go to City Plaza to shop but he kicked up a fuss and wanted to take me to somewhere secluded so that we can feel my legs. Well these are signs for me to ditch the date. He did drop me off City Plaza and there’s where I ditched him for two pair of shorts @ S$10.00. Not bad. The lady was trying to sell me everything under her roof. She had some gems but most were very hideous looking clothes. She had a pair of super highheel for S$2.00 but it made me look like one of those china dolls.

I met up with Esther after my date fiasco. She was looking for a hard c*ck and though that she can find in hard rock through some dubious meetup group she signed up.

The place hasn’t changed a bit. I haven’t been to hardcck…oops…hardrock for 15 years.

The turn up for the meetup: a measely 4 pasley people, two women and two guys. The meetup was too lame. If I wanted to socialize, I would look for people with at least 2000 times more panache than these 4 yahoos nursing their drink looking forelornly at an empty dance floor. The place had a live band, packed and no place to sit. So i rescued Esther from a vapid night with 4 staled personalities.

We ended up in Orchard Towers. It’s there I saw a very old face from my past, one of our original SGGURLS. She stared at me for a very long time. I didn’t recognize her at first.  Finally, her identity came on me. It looked like she had gone through the washing machine, washed out all her male elements and boom came out as a girl. This explained some of the things she told me more than a decade ago. If she transitioned, she would disappear from our radar. And that she did.

Esther dressed quite respectably for the meetup.. For that reason, she.had no problem going in and out of pubs in Orchard Towers.
I got bounced from the lower level pubs that don’t allow ladyboys. We ended up in Crazy Horse on the fourth floor. A drink starts at S$18.00. A definite rip off and the girls there was waiting their white night oh I mean angmo to buy their drinks. I was so thirsty I will buy my own drink. The girls ther were super sexy and I got the number of their breast surgeon. There were quite a few men checking us out.

We went to Harry’s. I got bounced by as the bouncer told me straight off that no working girls allowed. :-O Hmmm…interesting… I kinda blended in with the rest of the working gurls in Orchard Tower too well. Esther liked Harry’s as it was a definite place to pick up angmos. I know as I keep getting stupid Ang Mo walking right into me and staring into me with their silly grin. At least if you walk up to me, offered me a drink, I wouldn’t be so annoyed. I now know the meaning of Ang Mo Kio (Kio = bridge). Ang Mo Kio probably built by some jiobu for stupid Ang Mo’s who don’t know how to walk. Leave it to cheeky Singaporeans. Harry’s was defintely not a good place for me as the big size manager thought I just stumbled in from Orchard Tower to look for my next John and bounced me out.

Well Esther was sporting enough to leave with me. She was all settled in Harrys for their fish and chips.

I am not as much into these meetup groups as Esther. I guess maybe i am not looking for any partners. Just a place to hangout. I do like shopping and which gurl don’t. If you like shopping, hit me up.

SGGURLS forum, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Meetup, Boat Quay and 2 dates  

October 15, 2016
After many months of coaxing by Esther, I finally attended one of the Friday meetups meant for your working professional heterosexuals. I had to wear one of those cheezy tags with a green star strategically placed on my chest.

The whole meet felt more like a meat market with young ladies hopeful to find a future husband and socially inept geeks looking to score. The session wasn’t as bad as I. I got both men and women checking me out in a lustful way. I guess it helps to dress like a cross between the girl next door and a pole dancer. So that makes me a double crossdresser.

Friday night I ended up with two dates. One with Esther and another with an extremely shy admirer who like soft MtF. I guess having a guy fetch me to the meetup and rubbing my legs, while I read off the GPS direction from my phone is a turnon.

This Friday deserved a penned-in as my life journey. Getting the know Esther made my journey interesting. I have shunned going to straight places and stuck within the pink belt. I guess that was my box. Esther operates out-of-the-box and I wasn’t really enthusiastic about going to an event with 100 to 150 straight people. Though I didn’t really bother networking with anyone there, for the first time I did really get to talk to Esther. I see her almost every day but we never really talked. But that night we talked about SGGURLS, her and life in general. She’s one of those rare person that can visit a factory and figure out the entire operation down to the design. I guess maybe I am one of the few gurls in SGGURLS that can appreciate diversity. I met up with Shanica a while back and she asked me poignantly that is SGGURLS chinese oriented as the gurls tended to stick to themselves and spoke Mandarin. My answer is encapsulated in an old photo taken with a good friend of mine, Deanna. We both like BDSM and I have always engendered SGGURLS with a diverse DNA where we appreciate all spectrum of humanity and sexuality.

Anyways, it’s about 2:00 am. I guess I am so tired all the time and as much as I enjoyed an interesting Friday night, I would just be as happy to laze at home and watch porn.

Current Location: singapore

SGGURLS 2016 Sept Meet  

September 30, 2016
it’s good to have the SGGURLS meet resume again. We have new faces (not in pic) and old faces (not in pic).

BDSM questionnaire  

September 25, 2016
Comparison to 2014
2016 results
97% Rope bunny
96% Switch
93% Experimentalist
91% Non-monogamist
78% Submissive
77% Pet
73% Rigger
66% Master/Mistress
64% Slave
62% Dominant
60% Owner
56% Brat tamer
54% Primal (Prey)
52% Exhibitionist
49% Brat
47% Primal (Hunter)
46% Degradee
46% Voyeur
39% Masochist
37% Daddy/Mommy
34% Girl/Boy
33% Sadist
30% Ageplayer
29% Degrader
23% Vanilla
Current Location: singapore