Mojito and a fall

February 12, 2018

My date took me to Backstage. A Mojito defeated me.

I fell flat on my butt. My date brought me back home. The shortest date in history.

Probably a big disappointment for someone who had followed me on the internet for 7 years. Sometimes an idol should just stay as such.

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January 24, 2018

It's raining bullets and curling in front of the telly was a compelling proposition.
But then it's been a long time since I went to the SGDOMSUBS meet even though I was one of it's founders.
No pics save this rare pic of Chinese knot that I demoed that night: 20180124_2100.JPG
Everyone was new to me. A few people said to me ah ha at last we meet. And if you could see the caption of my thoughts: "??????"
So here we are back in my favorite spot for a photo to remember the night. ha ha. I should advertise for a photographer slut to chaperone me.

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SGGURLS 2018 Jan meet: sea of black, champagne and tampons

January 10, 2018

My version of the Golden Globe’s sea of black :
A toast to the new year:
2018 with a probably the prettiest ts in Singapore:
Angel explaining Gender Fluidity: 20180109_022a.jpg
Since this is a PG18 blog, I will only summarize the night in sequence as BDSM, slaves, foot worship, champagne, kissing, tampons, nip pinching, breath play and gender fluid discussion.

SGGURLS meets are posted on and
SGGURLS meets are open to all, admirers, gurls and girls. SGGURLS meets are small and cozy. We are comfy with each other. We do take lots of pics and if you don’t want to appear on my photos, just let me know.

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2017 in retrospective

December 28, 2017

chiaotzu_02.jpg Defending Chiatzu
2017 started out fending for a persona-non-grata who had a big fight with a drunk and alienated the whole trans community.
Let's call the smelly old man Chiatzu. Chiatzu has a toxic personality and will pretty much fuck anything that has a heartbeat. That explains the STD Chiatzu picked up.

Insidious Little Panda

Little Panda is quite the insidious devil. She was made an admin of SGGURLS, and in return, she tossed me out. I got back in through some miracle. She quit. Lil Panda actually more like big Panda has always had lots of little groups which she never grew beyond 30 members. Good at starting but a lousy finisher. Maybe that's her story in bed as well. Lil Panda has finally succeeded with a football group. I can't get angry at someone who took the trash from SGGURLS.

Slide1.JPG20181228_Des.jpgConfused loyalty

Confused Loyalty (CL) had been the life of SGGURLS. I have witnessed 10 years of a volatile emotional rollercoaster. I guess it must be from hauling all those big planes. She traveled to Thailand and Philippines with Lil Panda. On one hand, she wants to support Lil Panda but she's got one hand in SGGURLS. When the two plane move apart, CL plopped hard onto the ground.

SGGURLS had a very quiet 10 year anniversary. Mostly because I was unmotivated to arrange anything. Many new gurls send me emails asking me this and that. Unfortunately, the emails are mixed with a lot of rubbish. So none gets answered. I am the biggest fan of deleteall. In the past, I hardly had photos of myself. I just like taking photos together with other people. It's just nicer. Since jettisoning my Posse, I've gone solo in my pics. I discovered the reason for so much rubbish in my mailbox this year. I have half a million followers since going solo. My ad on locanto is less than a year old and has 23K views. I can't professed to understand people's fascination with me. I would have rather deflected them to SGGURLS. The benefit from all the attention is that I am spoilt for choices for dates.
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SGGURLS 2017-10 meet: A Rayne from the past, idols and bad lighting

October 16, 2017

LOL that’s probably the worst lighting this year. I am glad that I can be the inspiration for Shanica.

This picture taken by a darling from the past. I am so glad to see Rayne after so many years.
It was a Monday so quite a few of our gurls came after work and couldn’t dress. It’s not necessary to dress. Just come out and have a couple of drinks.

My handsome soldier dropped by to say hi and bye. “Hey, you’re not such a tigress after all.” LOL, best comment of the night.

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Mel Gibson gets Candy

September 28, 2017

A great BDSM play got spoilt by an afternoon curry. I got back from Mel’s and emptied my stomach. Food poisoning?

Mel had Candy and I had the 15 year old whisky. A good nightcab that hopefully gives me a great orgasmic dream.

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Blowing the Monday’s Blues

September 18, 2017

Blowing the Monday’s Blues

 The best medicine to blow away the Monday’s Blues is to go see the most beautiful girl in Singapore. It may be on a moment’s spur but I could slurp her soft lips till time’s end.

I understand now why so many men lust over her. I am tje lucky gurl to date my beautiful mate in a bar not for straights. To answer Max Botkin, what happened to Monday? She’s with me.. ha ha…

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Visiting the Princess

August 22, 2017

One year passed since I went to the Princess.


For those who don’t know, Princess Ammy is the real thing. She’s the Queen of Cane and a well known SM celebrity in the world.


It’s the ropes for a squirmer like me.


I am such a baby even for a 7 stroker. Pic of my checkered butt,


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A BDSM session with Mel Gibson

June 30, 2017

Work, travel, flu, and a bad fall were reasons that almost made my meet with “Mel Gibson” a sell out. The sun was out, so I took Mel’s invitation.

Mel has a nice style. He booked a posh place to play.

We chatted awhile and then it’s time to let my submissive side out. Mel’s bondage gears are exquisite. I can wear this all day.

It was the best play in 2017. So it’s a thumbs up and a big smile.

Nicole is a founder of several groups.
Singapore Transgender group, SGGURLS,
and several bdsm groups Singapore and Asia

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Finally back on my feet

June 26, 2017

20170623_004.jpgI had a real bad fall last week.The gash is quite a foot long. and ran quite deep.
Lucky for me I had a couple of tricks up my sleeve. Most worrisome was my left lower leg felt numb.
Being permamently paralyzed wasn’t far from my mind.
Wiith an ungainly left gait and a gaping scar, I had been very reluctaant to leave the house. I have been kinda of moody for the whole week. Finally my best friend had enough my melancholy and urged me to get dress for dinner rather than just louging around the house. I tried my favorite pair of red heels. Not exactly elegant but it’s nice to get back into my size 7.

We did end up going to our favorite restaurant in Joo Chiat which I have not gone for about a week.
20170626_025.jpg As long as I am mobile again, the scar is a small price.