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SGGURLS 2017-10 meet: A Rayne from the past, idols and bad lighting

October 16, 2017

LOL that’s probably the worst lighting this year. I am glad that I can be the inspiration for Shanica.

This picture taken by a darling from the past. I am so glad to see Rayne after so many years.
It was a Monday so quite a few of our gurls came after work and couldn’t dress. It’s not necessary to dress. Just come out and have a couple of drinks.

My handsome soldier dropped by to say hi and bye. “Hey, you’re not such a tigress after all.” LOL, best comment of the night.

SGGURLS, local transgender group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/

Luv

Nicole

Founder SGGURLS

kik / nicolesingslave

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Mel Gibson gets Candy

September 28, 2017

A great BDSM play got spoilt by an afternoon curry. I got back from Mel’s and emptied my stomach. Food poisoning?

Mel had Candy and I had the 15 year old whisky. A good nightcab that hopefully gives me a great orgasmic dream.

kik nicolesingslave

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/

Blowing the Monday’s Blues

September 18, 2017

Blowing the Monday’s Blues

 The best medicine to blow away the Monday’s Blues is to go see the most beautiful girl in Singapore. It may be on a moment’s spur but I could slurp her soft lips till time’s end.

I understand now why so many men lust over her. I am tje lucky gurl to date my beautiful mate in a bar not for straights. To answer Max Botkin, what happened to Monday? She’s with me.. ha ha…

For bdsm in singapore, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmasianetwork

For transgender life in Singapore, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

SGGURLS on facebook, https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/

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Visiting the Princess

August 22, 2017

One year passed since I went to the Princess.

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For those who don’t know, Princess Ammy is the real thing. She’s the Queen of Cane and a well known SM celebrity in the world.

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It’s the ropes for a squirmer like me.

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I am such a baby even for a 7 stroker. Pic of my checkered butt,  https://fetlife.com/users/8202

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If you love bondage, bdsm, contact me. I use KIK nicolesingslave.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmasianetwork

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmchinanetwork

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

 

 

A BDSM session with Mel Gibson

June 30, 2017

Work, travel, flu, and a bad fall were reasons that almost made my meet with “Mel Gibson” a sell out. The sun was out, so I took Mel’s invitation.

Mel has a nice style. He booked a posh place to play.


We chatted awhile and then it’s time to let my submissive side out. Mel’s bondage gears are exquisite. I can wear this all day.




It was the best play in 2017. So it’s a thumbs up and a big smile.

Nicole is a founder of several groups.
Singapore Transgender group, SGGURLS,  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
and several bdsm groups Singapore and Asia
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmAsianetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmChinanetwork

Play photos are here: https://fetlife.com/users/8202
Vanilla photos here: https://www.facebook.com/nicolesingslave

Finally back on my feet

June 26, 2017

20170623_004.jpgI had a real bad fall last week.The gash is quite a foot long. and ran quite deep.
Lucky for me I had a couple of tricks up my sleeve. Most worrisome was my left lower leg felt numb.
Being permamently paralyzed wasn’t far from my mind.
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Wiith an ungainly left gait and a gaping scar, I had been very reluctaant to leave the house. I have been kinda of moody for the whole week. Finally my best friend had enough my melancholy and urged me to get dress for dinner rather than just louging around the house. I tried my favorite pair of red heels. Not exactly elegant but it’s nice to get back into my size 7.

We did end up going to our favorite restaurant in Joo Chiat which I have not gone for about a week.
20170626_025.jpg As long as I am mobile again, the scar is a small price.

Meeting a new sista and Mel Gibson  

May 22, 2017
It’s been awhile that I’ve had a great meet.
So neat to to say that  I met “Mel Gibson” in May eventhough
I made a boo boo as I couldn’t tell Tantric from Taboo.
Mel doesn’t like his pic taken.

I met a new sista just beginning on a new discovery.

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A great starter, as I also found a slow dance partner.
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I did post for a meet in April. Those that messaged me on FB or KIK (nicolesingslave) .. we danced,
had fun and we got some leads on a new BDSM adventure.
I trully believe that a princess can have have her cake by the ocean. 🙂

I run a local Singapore trangender group call SGGURLS. We’re admirer friendly.
Our group home: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/
You can also contact me via kik nicolesingslave

Current Location: Singapore

April 2017 Moderator Meet: the aftermath

April 18, 2017

It’s our first moderator meeting after the departure of the old guards. An aftermath that spells start over. I am the old gurl in the group and the generation gap is big. I saw one of the gurls grow up and now living full time as a transwoman. SGGURLS began when the phone and camera were two different devices and phones were bricks. One of the mods commented that I still look the same as 10 years ago. (LOL jialat no progress).

Key on the night’s agenda were what had happened and what’s the splinter group doing. Typical of me, I address the simple one first.
What the splinter group is doing? I really don’t know and don’t care. There are many groups before and after the birth of SGGURLS. Here’s a listing contemporary trans groups: http://oogachaga.com/congregaytion/website/detail/7
Groups are created when people gravitate to each other. When the chemistry is gone, people go their own way. That’s just life. The more groups that exist in Singapore or SE Asia, the better it is for the LGBT community. Diversity means more options.

SGGURLs event if organized by me will always be indoors, fully airconditioned, quiet places with enough ambient music. Of course, some of the members out grew my taste.

The new football club does BBQ and beer guzzling events, Super for people who love sweat, outdoors and getting drunk. I am a lounge lizard and outdoors …naaahhhh. Beer? Naaaahhhhh.

Prior to football club was the Secret Agent Group of gurls who parties in high end clubs. LOL, ya I know about the not so secret agent club and their secret changing place in Parkway Center, right Agent K?

There was also a group of gurls who set up an apartment in Paya Lebar. For a nominal fee, gurls can dress up, rent a locker to store their stuff. That was a good idea but with high rental in Singapore it’s got to cater to a much wider audience to be commercially viable.

SIS is an activist group set up artist Marla Bendini and talented designer Trish (designer of our SGGURLS) group. SIS champions transgender rights and represents us in PinkDot.

My last mention was the group that organized the trans Pagent. Again great idea but after the first pagent, the organizers (most of are from SGGURLS) fizzled out.

What happened in SGGURLS that caused the old guards to be ejected? There were 1 co-founder (Adaline) and 5 gurls ejected.  Co-founder Adaline was expelled, for two reasons and both related the SGGURL events she organized. The first was the BBQ event which she promoted with much fanfare, later said was cancelled but actually took place. The second was SGGURLS March meet which she had grandly advertised, on the day of the event abandoned and lied to me that she had attend to something urgent. Something urgent meant catastrophy that involved the emergency room. Being in some bar in Golden Mile with our new homies does not qualify as catastrophic. The other 5 gurls who engaged in cyber bullying were also expelled. These explusions can be temporary if the gurls acknowledge their mistake and don’t repeat them. To err is human and to forgive is divine.

As the founder of SGGURLS, the problem is squarely on my breasts. An absent leader is not much of a leader. This will continue to plague SGGURLS as work eats up my whole life. I do wish I can just up and leave to correct the biggest problem in my life: being born in the wrong gender. Unfortunately, SRS is not the end of the journey and thinking of the journey after next keeps me up at night toling away. Being just a pretty face won’t pay the bills. This is third team running SGGURLS. Maybe third time is the charm and my successor is in plain sight.

April 2017 Moderator Meet: the aftermath

April 18, 2017

It’s our first moderator meeting after the departure of the old guards. An aftermath that spells start over. I am the old gurl in the group and the generation gap is big. I saw one of the gurls grow up and now living full time as a transwoman. SGGURLS was started when the phone and camera were two different devices and the phones looked like a brick. One of the mods commented that you still look the same as 10 years ago. (LOL jialat no progress).

Key on the night’s agenda were that happened and what the splinter group is doing. Typical of me, I address the simple one first.
What the splinter group is doing? I really don’t know and don’t care. There are many groups before and after the birth of SGGURLS. Here’s a listing contemporary trans groups: http://oogachaga.com/congregaytion/website/detail/7
Groups are created when people gravitate to each other. When the chemistry is gone, people go their own way. That’s just life. The more groups that exist in Singapore or SE Asia, the better it is for the LGBT community. Diversity means more options.

SGGURLs event if organized by me will always be indoors, fully airconditioned, quiet places with enough ambient music. Of course, some of the members out grew my taste.

The new football club does BBQ and beer guzzling events, Super for people who love sweat, outdoors and getting drunk. I am a lounge lizard and outdoors …naaahhhh. Beer? Naaaahhhhh.

Prior to football club was the Secret Agent Group of gurls who parties in high end clubs. LOL, ya I know about the not so secret agent club and their secret changing place in Parkway Center, right Agent K?

There was also a group of gurls who set up an apartment in Paya Lebar with a nominal fee where gurls can dress up, rent a locker to store their stuff. That was a good idea but with high rental in Singapore it’s got to cater to a much wider audience to be commercially viable.

SIS is an activist group set up artist Marla Bendini and talented designer Trisha (designer of our SGGURLS) group. SIS champions transgender rights and represents us in PinkDot.

My last mention was the group that organized the trans Pagent. Great idea but after the first pagent, the organizers (most of are from SGGURLS) fizzled out.

What happened in SGGURLS that caused the old guards to be ejected? There were 1 co-founder (Adaline) and 5 gurls ejected.  Co-founder Adaline was expelled, for two reasons and they are related to the two SGGURL events she organized. The first was the BBQ event which she promoted with much fanfare, later said was cancelled but actually took place. The second was SGGURLS March meet which she had grandly advertised, on the day of the event abandoned and lied to me that she had attend to something urgent. Something urgent meant a catastrophy that involved the emergency room. Being in some bar in Golden Mile does not qualify as catastrophic. The other 5 members were the gurls who engaged in cyber bullying. These explusions can be temporary if the gurls acknowledges their mistake and don’t them. To err is human and to forgive is divine.

As the founder of SGGURLS, the problem is squarely on my breasts. An absent leader is not much of a leader. This will continue to plague SGGURLS as work eats up my whole life. I do wish I can just up and leave to correct the biggest problem in my life: being born in the wrong gender. Unfortunately, SRS is not the end journey and thinking of the journey after next keeps me up at night toling away. Being just a pretty face won’t pay the bills. This is third team that is running SGGURLS. Maybe third time is the charm and my successor is in plain sight.20170418_013.jpg

SGGURLS March 2017 Meet: found new moderators and ISO more mods.

April 1, 2017

The last 24 hour was spicier than all the episodes of Tanglin. The Friday started by being stood up by my date. I waited like a goondoo until 8:00 pm. All he got to do was show up @ office, pick me up and go to SGGURLS gathering.

But lucky for me I had another date. 🙂 Lo and Behold at the SGGURLs meet, I discovered that the organizer didn’t even bother showing up. What’s even worse was that she was my best friend and she lied to me. She went to another event organized by someone who salivates to own SGGURLS. The truth unravelled this morning when the big mouth who went to their party spilled the beans. Early 2016, before the fist fight of Cr and Es, Es brokered a meeting asking me to make Cr an owner of SGGURLS. I said I will think about it. The meeting was so stupid I never wrote anything about it. Can a drunkard really garner followers and be an influencer in SGGURLS? I laughed so hard that orange juice came out from my nose.
But as life would have it, never underestimate a drunkard jackal. It outmanouvered me. Cr organized events to conincide with SGGURLS meet. Cr has got most of SGGURLS 2016 mods. I am a little sore that I got bitten by a cunning dog and it’s done so insidiously that movie insicidious should take a page out of our politics. I can’t be angry with the big Lady upstairs for cleaning my SGGURLS house for me. So I am in search of NEW mods for SGGURLS. I would eventually like to hand over the leadership reins to the right mod.

The quality of SGGURLS mods:

 

    • do what you say and say what you mean

 

I started SGGURLS when the internet was still a baby, the camera and phone were different devices. I posted events and I showed up even I was the only one. I recruited moderators that helped me formed the first nucleous of SGGURLS. I made some mistakes along the way by putting wrecks as moderators. The March event was organized by my best friend who turncoat and lied about it. And most smart people will smell bullshit a mile away. Yours was just in Golden mile.

 

    • your real life is in order

 

For mods to really help other people, your life must in order. That means you need a stable job. You are socially responsible and you got street cred.

 

    • mentally and emotionally stable

 

This criteria is best described by an example of what NOT to be. There’s a toxic old fart who runs around town, bad mouthing everyone, bragging that she’s a millionaire, claming to be a recovering gambling addict and offering free BJ to any guy desperate to have a lip around his shaft. This a person is so insecure that the only way she can feel good is by making everyone else feel like dirt including his loving wife who may on her last league of her life. Stultus, ut hoc adepto fulgur percussit per sapientiae

SGGURLS forum http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
SGGURLS facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/

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