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SGGURLS FB update November 2018

November 29, 2018

1. A new logo
Merging Trish’s original SGGURLS logo with Nur’s banner upload.

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Nur uploaded a new banner that had that was designed by Monica Helms in 1999.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender_flags
http://point5cc.com/the-history-of-the-transgender-flag/

SGGURLS original Logo was design by Trish in 2007.

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SGGURLS facebook forum is a private forum where member’s post can be read by members only. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/ 

2. Promote only SGGURLS services & businesses.

Members of Sggurls are encouraged to promote their activities and businesses on one another. Businesses and services that are legal in Singapore such as makeup services, custom-made dresses, comfortable ladies shoes (size 44+++) and event places are highly sought after. SGGURLS is making a strong comeback with a healthy ~3800 members.I am told by quite a few friends well connected in the lgbt community that SGGURLS remain the biggest trans forum in Singapore. It’s no secret to SGGURLS growing numbers despite being a private group. Sggurls is inclusive and members are tought how to advertise private events so as not to make other members feel excluded. A anecdote of this inclusiveness can be found SGGURL’s bank of photos. Taking a selfie is no challenge. A wefie, is more fun & inclusive. In the early days of SGGURLS, almost all the pics were wefie in public places. Though it may not seem like a lot, it was a big mindset change for the gurls who took pictures of themselves. The gurls knew of each other but were not connected. SGGURLS became a gateway to connect people. Events organised are for the SGGURLS community to say hi. There no paegent in SGGURLS, no competition for who’s more beautiful. Just a place to socialise and a place to say ‘hey, I am going to this place. Wanna hangout?”

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3. SGGURLS moderators.
Despite losing it’s first batch of moderators, SGGURLS moderator team has grown to 14. The moderators work hard to keep the forum free of stupidity.

4. Facebook insights on SGGURLS
As moderators, we have access to some interesting statistics in Facebook.
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popular time:

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5. Can I come back?

Quite a few are expelled from the group in keeping SGGURLS peaceful, sane and inclusive. Every 12 months, I do the unbanning. People can return anytime, but on the promise that they don’t post hateful messages, run exclusion campaigns especially from the old guards that made our admirers feel left out, or spam SGGURLS.

6. Where to find Nic on a weekly basis?
I usually post events on FB on a weekly basis. You find me only a handful of places. Lately, I am in love with this place call Lulu’s. Here is me @ Lulus last night.

https://vc.videos.livejournal.com/index/player?player=new&record_id=1166944&ad_template_id=9268

Luv
Nic
founder of SGGURLS
kik nicolesingslave
SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
When contacting me, please introduce yourself. I get 200-300 messages a day. Save your ‘hi’ and ‘how are you?’ They get deleted instantly.
Old sggurls forum: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Most of us are on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641
My old BDSMasia forums. If you are in the SM circle, an active SM player, level headed and people know you, then you can have the forums. I need a successor. Just contact me. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmasianetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

 

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SGGURLS roundup

November 15, 2018

Gurl’s Nite out @ Backstage, Tuesday, 13th Nov. Organiser: RT.
3 plus 1,
a doll almost undone,
stumbling down a staircase,
if not for a lady with grace.
Heel broke,
another pair bespoke.
3 blokes propositions the doll
Into the wormhole
ya horny troll.

Ladies Nite @ Lulus, Wed 14th Nov. Organiser: NL
Becca announces Neetu
Peaches says adieu.
Aperol at Lulus,
Pretty Girls ready to screw.
NL drunk as a booboo.

https://vc.videos.livejournal.com/index/player?player=new&record_id=1157872

Luv
Nic
founder
SGGURLS
kik nicolesingslave
SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
SGGURLS founder: kik nicolesingslave
When contacting me, please introduce yourself. I get 200-300 messages a day. Save your ‘hi’ and ‘how are you?’ They get deleted instantly.
My old BDSMasia forums. If you are in the SM circle, an active SM player, level headed and people know you, then you can have the forums. I need a successor. Just contact me. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmasianetwork

 

Meeting the craftsman

November 1, 2018

There is an urban legend of very talented craftsman in Malaysia that makes leather wear and exquisite bondage furniture. Only the people deep in the SM community knows about this elusive Craftsman. It turns out that the Craftsman is a fan of mine. We’ve been conversing for 5 years yet I didn’t even know that he was the urban legend.
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The Craftsman’s workshop is in the Klang industrial area. Not exactly a place that lights my fire. I made him lug his wares to my turf. I am the mean princess.
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I was pleasantly surprise that the Craftsman’s work is as good or better than the expensive high quality gears I got from Europe and US. His leather harness fit me like a horny octopus.

The Craftsman is easy going, shy and soft spoken person. The kind of slave that I could tease to death.
https://vc.videos.livejournal.com/index/player?player=new&record_id=1145915&ad_template_id=9268

Luv
Nic
founder
SGGURLS
kik nicolesingslave
SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
SGGURLS founder: kik nicolesingslave

When contacting me, please introduce yourself. I get 200-300 messages a day. Save your ‘hi’ and ‘how are you?’ They get deleted instantly.
Old sggurls forum: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641

My old BDSMasia forums. If you are in the SM circle, an active SM player, level headed and people know you, then you can have the forums. I need a successor. Just contact me. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmasianetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

The Legend

October 12, 2018

When I am called a Legend by strangers who followed me for over a decade, it makes me think of Will Smith. Didn’t Robert Neville die at the end of the movie?

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I am probably Singapore’s most well known underground figure because I am so easy to spot. I am the blonde Asian gurl when blonde on Asian wasn’t fashionable. SGGURLS rose to fame because of my infamy. My bdsm exploits are known in most leather and lgbt circles. Kink is the spice of life. Everyday eat rice, definitely not nice. Super xian (local Singapore slang for: 不厌倦同样的狗屎).

I have personal ads running all the time as a market markers. They have a very big disclaimer: “I am not commercial.” I do work my ass off, but my butt it is not for sale.



These ads net hundreds of inquiries per week. It’s a lot of work to guarantee that my recreation time is idiot free. I go through 9,999 dunderheads to get that coveted playmate. To blow through the garbage, my replies are zen. Tabloid journalist, feast on these samples. I have tonnes of them.

A mountain turtle doesn’t know about Ladies night .If you don’t want turtle soup, set your date on Ladies night. If your date doesn’t know the day, then it’s a day. Bobbitt the hobbit. Every Wednesday in Singapore has been ladies night since the 80’s. Maybe 3 looks like breast? I have been frequenting Lulus. It’s a very classy joint.
https://vc.videos.livejournal.com/index/player?player=new&record_id=1128743

Luv
Nic
founder
SGGURLS
kik nicolesingslave
SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
SGGURLS founder: kik nicolesingslave
Old sggurls forum: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641
Tags: #cd, #lifestyle, #singapore, #translife, #ts, #tv, singapore, transgender
Tags: #cd, #lifestyle, #singapore, #translife, #ts, #tv, bdsm, cd, leather, lifestyle, singapore, trans, ts, tv

 

A caning and a love confession

September 4, 2018

Once a year I meet with the beautiful Princess of Pain, Princess Ammy. By four, my pain pangs were gone, at least until I can sit again. The session was attended by 3 locals who knew me. The cheeks on my face blushed. I didn’t know them. The cheeks on my bottom blushed too, when I was reacquianted with my old friend, the cane.

The teaser for my pervs:
https://vc.videos.livejournal.com/index/player?player=new&record_id=1092753

I wanted to hang out with Princess Ammy & Gg but SD was in BS desparately texting me on all channels. “I here, I here, where r u.” Scooby Doo sent me to BS. My drink was awaiting. It should have been a fun night, but it was a run night instead when my lil puppy offered me his heart on a platter and proposed a 3 day, 2 night honeymoon.

SD and I in BS:
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It’s straight to the every ladies’ refuge. Here’s a pic inside. Decked with mirrors, a stylish velvet pink sofa with soft cuddles, and pink curtains, It’s trully the best part in BS. I could spend all day in here.

After being passionately kissed, tongued and groped, I had enough. This ET wanna go home.
The pic is of SD and I outside waiting for our ride. We were directly under the street lamp. The brightness didn’t dim SD’s horniness. He’s got the choke hold on me with one hand under my skirt. I am sure it was quite a visual treat for many.
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Hot, sweaty, finally home and didn’t get boned. ha ha… For once, the hunter became the hunted.

 

Ladies Nite #6

August 30, 2018

Lulus is a class act and they sure know how to put on a ladies nite.
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After 3x of their delicious potent cocktail, I didn't even realize my besties.

Super smashed and smashingly happy. xxoo

See ya this Sat for the bdsm event.

Luv
Nic
founder
SGGURLS
kik nicolesingslave

SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
SGGURLS founder: kik nicolesingslave
Old sggurls forum: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641

Tags: #cd, #lifestyle, #singapore, #translife, #ts, #tv, singapore, transgender

Going out and find yourself

August 28, 2018

Last night, a friend took me out to OneKM. It was a date that almost never happened simply because people over think things.
I forget that for some, going out is a big deal. It must take a lot of practice to put your leg at time into pants and go out.

I often get gurls lamenting that they are not passable. Really? WTF, you wanna pass as a woman and miss being transgender.  You’re born in the wrong sex. So what? If you spent your whole life trying to avoid detection, then you miss the opportunity of finding out who you really are. Being the person of your dream is a destination but you’ll enjoy the journey more. There will come a day when technology will catchup and our original gender will be but a pill choice. One pill and poof, you’ve got a pair of tits and vagina. Another pill, pop you’re an asshole. Ooops, I mean a man. Today the tech is here but it takes a shit load of pills and jabs to be that woman or man. So when the eventually catches up, will you still be preoccupied with gender? Or will it be the next thing? Too short? Too tall? Too fat? Jaw too big? Eyes too small?  The list is endless and that’s why the devil will never be retrenched.

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I sell the gospel of being comfy in your own skin. Who gives a shit about passing as a girl. If you wanna pass, pass gas. ha ha. If people like to stare, just smile at them. They will look away.

If you wanna hang out with me, be smart and chilled. Just tell me how beautiful I am, buy me a nice perfume and tell me you wanna meet me so bad. Don’t text me a long essay only to tell me,”oh sorry! I can’t make it the place is close.”  U’re such a fkup Jo_Joerunner and eventhough you bought my book you’re still fkup for standing me up twice.

Luv
Nic
founder
SGGURLS
kik nicolesingslave

SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
SGGURLS founder: kik nicolesingslave
Old sggurls forum: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641
Tags: #cd, #lifestyle, #singapore, #translife, #ts, #tv, cd

Challenging the Norm every Wednesday

August 2, 2018

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SGGURLS Ladies Nite
https://www.facebook.com/events/271837530244453/

SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
SGGURLS founder: kik nicolesingslave
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641

#singapore #translife #lifestyle #ts #tv #cd

A taste of blood and the 3 drinks limit

July 26, 2018

Ladies nite @ Lulus is a night thick with estrogen and alcohol. The Themysciran beauties number in 77 . I am on 5″ stilts and they on flats. A hunch for a kiss, if it’s going to be a lesbian night.


The strong cocktail accentuated the hunt. A beautiful young brunette locked eyes with this lil blond. A signal to the ladies. Three cocktail drinks, a taste of blood and blondiestiltskin is in barf town.
https://vc.videos.livejournal.com/index/player?player=new&record_id=1063742
Drunk as Wednesday’s Monk. Celibate it shall be. No femme funk when a nice bed beckons.

Luv
Nic
SGGURLS founder
kik nicolesingslave
SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
Old sggurls forum: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641
Tags: lifestyle, singapore, transgender

 

A Singaporean Transgender and Wilt Chamberlain

July 19, 2018

Everybody has a tale. It’s just that my tail is a solid 7″. The oddity of looking like a woman and having an alpha piping that makes both gender weak at their knees.
https://vc.videos.livejournal.com/index/player?player=new&record_id=1056873
It’s a cheap thrill to be Betty Boob of my internet trolls and the Domina of every eyeball in the room. The delectable lust in people’s eye when I enter the room and sweet smell of wetness in the air when I leave. That forlorn look I know well as I am as guilty next lust pharmacist.
https://vc.videos.livejournal.com/index/player?player=new&record_id=1056875
Of late, I seem to have a dull appetite for eggs or sausages. Chalk it to an OD of a good thing. I like to claim Wilt Chamberlain’s record but he’s rumored to have an 11 inch reach into any flesh pocket. I may not match his wagon pole but maybe my bell clapper will ring in the heavens for my partners.

Luv
Nic
SGGURLS founder
kik nicolesingslaveSGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.
Old sggurls forum: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/