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SGGURLS March 2017 Meet: found new moderators and ISO more mods.

April 1, 2017

The last 24 hour was spicier than all the episodes of Tanglin. The Friday started by being stood up by my date. I waited like a goondoo until 8:00 pm. All he got to do was show up @ office, pick me up and go to SGGURLS gathering.

But lucky for me I had another date. ūüôā Lo and Behold at the SGGURLs meet, I discovered that the organizer didn’t even bother showing up. What’s even worse was that she was my best friend and she lied to me. She went to another event organized by someone who salivates to own SGGURLS. The truth unravelled this morning when the big mouth who went to their party spilled the beans. Early 2016, before the fist fight of Cr and Es, Es brokered a meeting asking me to make Cr an owner of SGGURLS. I said I will think about it. The meeting was so stupid I never wrote anything about it. Can a drunkard really garner followers and be an influencer in SGGURLS? I laughed so hard that orange juice came out from my nose.
But as life would have it, never underestimate a drunkard jackal. It outmanouvered me. Cr organized events to conincide with SGGURLS meet. Cr has got most of SGGURLS 2016 mods. I am a little sore that I got bitten by a cunning dog and it’s done so insidiously that movie insicidious should take a page out of our politics. I can’t be angry with the big Lady upstairs for cleaning my SGGURLS house for me. So I am in search of NEW mods for SGGURLS. I would eventually like to hand over the leadership reins to the right mod.

The quality of SGGURLS mods:


    • do what you say and say what you mean


I started SGGURLS when the internet was still a baby, the camera and phone were different devices. I posted events and I showed up even I was the only one. I recruited moderators that helped me formed the first nucleous of SGGURLS. I made some mistakes along the way by putting wrecks as moderators. The March event was organized by my best friend who turncoat and lied about it. And most smart people will smell bullshit a mile away. Yours was just in Golden mile.


    • your real life is in order


For mods to really help other people, your life must in order. That means you need a stable job. You are socially responsible and you got street cred.


    • mentally and emotionally stable


This criteria is best described by an example of what NOT to be. There’s a toxic old fart who runs around town, bad mouthing everyone, bragging that she’s a millionaire, claming to be a recovering gambling addict and offering free BJ to any guy desperate to have a lip around his shaft. This a person is so insecure that the only way she can feel good is by making everyone else feel like dirt including his loving wife who may on her last league of her life. Stultus, ut hoc adepto fulgur percussit per sapientiae

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Finally unwrapped my birthday and valentine gift…

February 19, 2017

…from Master Frank of Perth. 2 weeks ago I put on the PVC outfit without looking at the other bondage goodies. Life doesn’t wait for one to catch up. Today I had about one hour so¬†I finally unwrapped the remaining gifts.Since I couldn’t find a photographer without benefits a selfie stick would have to do. These toys are exclusively for my benefactor and I¬†so no second dips for anyone.


The thongs were so comfy and sexy.

There were other interesting bondage gears. Here they are laid up.

The locking penis gag and restraint systems are very interesting. The restraint system will make sense only when you’re here.

So here goes putting on the gears. First the latex. To get into the latex I had to wear panty hose first. The latex suit fit perfectly.

The bondage gears are simple with velcro and clips. It won’t hold an escape artist like me. So a simple shrimp / fetal position so that I can operate the selfie stick.

The penis gag did keep me quiet. I love it that it’s lockable. I just love chains and love. It’s a psychological thingy as I can escape from most rope bondage.

This is a closer look at the velcro shackles. The metal clip are quite flimsy and can break quite easily if I tug at it hard enough especially when I reach orgasm…:-P



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SGGURLS’ 3rd Anniversary

December 6, 2010

SGGURLS’ 3rd Anniversary

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3-4th of December

Once a year, SGGURLS claims a few days in the name of all gurls. People from all walks of life, unfurl their jelously guarded sail to join hands in celebration of acceptance. The gurls elate their gender transient state and know that in this small piece of heaven, there will be no gate villian barring their entrance.

SGGURLS' 3rd Anniversary photo 1

Friday through Saturday, the makeover and photoshoot sessions were in full motion. Magic skin lotion transformed ordinary mortals into angels worthy of any murals. Jesse of AFA,¬†tirelessly fought through¬†a fever, to make the event ritzy. The¬†educational AIDS talk and free test manned by¬†Jess’ friendly¬†AFA colleagues were¬†like icing on¬†a cake.¬†HIV negative and matching smiles were far better rewards than¬†the¬†infinite wealth of any¬†sheik.

SGGURLS' 3rd Anniversary photo 2

Kayla, our Maestra extraordinaire, masterfully pull the troops together to make the event a successful one. Thankyou to all the SGGURLS organisers for making this event a memorable one.

For more on SGGURLS, a Singapore based transgender networking and social group, please go to; or find us on facebook,

SGGURLS 3rd anniversary: program draft

November 28, 2010

SGGURLS 3rd anniversary: program draft

27th November 2010

We’re oversubscribed!¬†It’s not a wonder when the value proposition is overwhelming. For a mere 18sgd, the gurls get a free make over, photography session, food and two days of chalet worth 180sgd per person. There are not many places where one can get 10x returns. Herein lies the problem, we’re underfunded for the overpacked fun event.

SGGURLS 3rd anniversary: program draft photo 1

We discussed this problem at length yesterday and decided to uphold this proposition, but we do need help cover the short fall. We’re going to put a ‘donation’ box at the entrance of the chalet. For those of you who feel charitable, please do help us. Here’s the DRAFT program for our SGGURLS celebration. The final program will be publish soon.SGGURLS 3rd anniversary: program draft photo 2

For payment & registration for this coming 3-4th DEC 2010 event, please email

For more information on Singapore’s transgender social networking group, please go to and we’re also on facebook

SGGURLS: meet the moderator night

October 10, 2010

9th October 2010.

Nothing beats a night of good¬†food in a¬†great restaurant¬†that¬†reserves the best seats for¬†its trangenders¬†patrons and their friends. Gardenslug‘s¬†staff greeted us with winks and smiles, so putting up¬†our petite feet up¬†was no¬†big feat.¬†SGGURLS: meet the moderator night photo 1

Ssssslowly but sssssurely, the rest of the SGGURLS sssssstrolled in. Des and Jess were the only time keepers of punctuality; bless their souls! Our resident blonde bimbo booked a place that closed at 10 so when the other half of the Moderators finally showed up, the restaurant had to close and we had to wind up our meeting.

SGGURLS: meet the moderator night photo 2

Gurls will be¬†gurls: we didn’t really get down to business until the we were done chasing down villous news. It’s difficult to¬†focus when¬†we had¬†on the menu sexy muumuus on sale,¬†a secret marriage in May, a pack of¬†003 condoms,¬†lolita foreplay that angered the members¬†of cosplay, the¬†sparks¬†from the Dark movements disputing monarchs¬†and a corporate buyout.¬†

SGGURLS: meet the moderator night photo 3

The basic plan that we were reached were:

i. yaaaay … we got a Chalet

ii. the SGGURLS anniversary will be on 3rd(Fri)-4th(Sat) of December

iii. Jess from AFA will help us with the program.


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January 24, 2010


Singapore, 23-24 January 2010.

When I walked into PLU, I found Rose and Daniel flat on the ground¬†bored from waiting on our princesses to show up. Oh dearie me, the gurls will be fashionably late or was this¬†going to be a logistic hiccup? I didn’t pass up on the chance to chat with the¬†founders of SGB. Rose showed me a newspaper¬†article featuring Fanny Ler: “They stare at you, talk behind your back”,,4136,227874,00.html.¬†¬†

Before we got the opportunity¬†to get deeper into our chat, the gurls¬†trickled in. Let the feast begin: food,¬†food,¬†food, vodka, tequila¬†and¬†whisky.¬†Soon everyone was busy like bees,¬†flirting and¬†joking.¬†When the alcohol kicked in, we got to pick on Bendini. I flash my red panty at Marla, Yvonne¬†pulled down her tight shorts¬†revealing a¬†sexy black lacy thong,¬†Bendini spread her legs, Divi mooned us¬†and Trish said that she was straight. Har har…I’ve no idea what I just wrote.

The good thing about having¬†a party in a¬†cafe like PLU¬†is that we won’t run out of good food. The downside: diet plan, out you go like an old shoe. Our sweet Diva, Destynee, and PLU gave Ada and I, the best present we could ever ask for: two tantalising cakes served by two cute PLU guys.¬† We blew out their candles….duh…the candles on the cakes. Collectively, Ada and I are two years old. That’s nice.

When the clock struck at midnight precise, the¬†party was too hot to be iced. The gurls¬†went¬†downtown & made Supper club the new party hub. Don’t ask me about the candles there, I don’t want to get walloped.

We would like to thank Shawn and Andrew for agreeing to host our bodacious party and our wonderful friends for helping make the party fiesty.

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A saturday night of umbrella drinks

August 30, 2009

A saturday night of umbrella drinks

Singapore, 30th August 2009.

It was a nights when good friends met for a round of umbrella drinks to exchange experience about our personal trek through the bleakest economic winter. It has been tough for everyone and the tired smiles showed. The consensus is that things are improving and Singapore has been luckier than most places. There was a brief discussion of the slow pace of the Calendar 2010 project. *Choke* Well, with everyone working multiple jobs to stay afloat is not a wonder that there was miniscule progress made. It takes time, energy, patience and faith to transforms free spirited friends into a cohesive work team.

A very deep philosophical discussion cropped up. The topic revolved around dealing with personal issues and revealing the hidden half to loved ones. Adaline gave us two wise advises when it came to opening the closet: one has to consider
the consequence¬†from¬†the wider social circle and one’s ability to take gossips in stride.¬†There¬†were¬†five¬†obvious¬†facets to transitioning¬†that we¬†could conclude.¬†Life is a journey with¬†a¬†start and an end.¬†In the course of the¬†journey, we¬†will learn as well as¬†educate others. Thirdly, the destination is not as important as the journey. It’s like climbing up a beautiful mountain early in the morning to admire the sunrise for¬†a few hours. Eventually we have to descent. Fourthly, we can’t¬†escape from the circle of people¬†whom we are associated with no matter how hard we try. Lastly, how we treat others is important. The fourth and¬†last¬†conclusions¬†were derived¬†by¬†looking¬†at how human¬†lives were designed: we are meant to learn and teach.¬†The endeavor to unleash the inner student and teacher requires tremendous¬†courage. After the dizzy round of deep discussions, the gurls went over to Dixie’s for a few rounds of pool.


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