Archive for December, 2016


December 24, 2016

Xmas wouldn’t be the same without your best friends.That is all one needs to remember the great times in 2016. A smile, a hug, a kiss. They are fragant petals in our lives that makes awesome memories.
Adaline prepared all these gifts for our friends who attended our Xmas meet. Esther brought wine. The remaining surprise Xmas gifts are still with me. If you would like them, we may have a meet next Friday.
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The face of SGGURLS has changed over times but what has remained is friendship. Like any successful groups, there must be love. A mission. Passion. SGGURLS mission has been to create space and time for trans to come out and tell the world “I exist”. Its not a difficult mission but one that is thankless. The moderators of SGGURLS don’t get paid and often become a lightning rod for many difficult times especially when members wage war with each other. Other than the simple mission, there is no agenda.

From all of us in SGGURLS, merry Xxxmas and Happy 2017. May you be in love all the time.


A matchmaker that found her fantastic four….

December 13, 2016
Tinder didn’t work for my friends so I thought I play the matchmaker. I found a few nice admirers that would be a perfect fit for a few of my friends in SGGURLS.

Not to one who introduces half wits, I had to meet them first. I usually don’t date men and when I do it’s as rare as spotting a waterspout. 2016 is an exception. I found my fantastic four who treated me like a princess…lol eventhough I am more of a queen.

I have a lot of fun with my fantastic four each are super in their own ways. My first this year was JL. JL is a darling with a lot of heart. Jas is my BDSM playmate. He’s got me all these pleasure toys. RC is a kind dashing gentleman who can get any woman he wants but he chose me. Finally, RC last night. I felt like I was with Dwayne Johnson (aka the Rock). It’s nice to have dates that literally tower over me. I think all four are about 6’2++ and you know that that means ladies. This is still a PG blog so let’s just leave the bedroom scenes out.

I hope I don’t have to choose and maybe I am loose definitely not at the bottom but more on a traditional role of just hanging out with one mate. I guess no members of the fastastic four wants any of my gurls. 😦

Yesterday I met SM. Wow that’s two for two in a fortnight. We went to two of my favorite hangouts. I love friends who are comfortable to be seen with me in public. With heels I am slower than a snail unless I am jaywalking from DYMK to Backstage. I bumped into Ben whom I have not seen for more than ten years. He’s running Backstage and still in touch with Terrence whom I very fond of.

P.S. I have a super fan in Perth. I hope he is okay. I haven’t heard from him for quite some time.
SGGURLS is Singapore transgender central. The group was started by a few of us gurls namely Adaline, Hendrika (botanist extraoridnaire), Kayla, Ivy Sr, Ivy Jr, Destynee, Trish (a talented ad guru, our logo designer & you should hire her if you need a marketing expert).

Current Location: singapore
Current Mood: happyhappy

Friday’s Curry Gurl  

December 3, 2016
2016 has slipped by faster than a slippery eel. I was looking forward to seeing JL in my office but he had a client the last minute. I got my finger working …on my computer… not diddling myself if that’s what I got you thinking. Friday was shaping to be a bust with my gurlfriend Esther not feeling well from taking too much spiro. RC messaged me that he can pick me up from my place and Esther green light our meet in 8B BQ for F’s meetup session. $5.00 drinks for ladies. That is the only reason Esther and I frequent F’s meetup session. Red, White, Vodka w Soda, beer..for S$5.00.

I’m meeting RC for the first time. I thought RC was Ricky Chan. But he turned out better than Jacky Chan. RC is any ladies’ dream: tall, suave, down to earth, easy to converse. Eventually we found ourselves in Dhoom. We couldn’t go in the last time because it was reserved for Indian gents. LOL with RC, we got in.

The girls in Dhoom were super gorgeous. It was like a page out of Bollywood. The drinks however were super super EX. I fainted when I saw how much they charged for a jug of Tiger. I didn’t take any pics for the night save this two.

Nic Lave
Singapore’s first blond Ladyboy and proud of it.
SGGURLS, Singapore’s transgender forum,