SGGURLS 2018 Jan meet: sea of black, champagne and tampons

January 10, 2018

My version of the Golden Globe’s sea of black :
A toast to the new year:
2018 with a probably the prettiest ts in Singapore:
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Since this is a PG18 blog, I will only summarize the night in sequence as BDSM, slaves, foot worship, champagne, kissing, tampons, nip pinching, breath play and gender fluid discussion.

SGGURLS meets are posted on and
SGGURLS meets are open to all, admirers, gurls and girls. SGGURLS meets are small and cozy. We are comfy with each other. We do take lots of pics and if you don’t want to appear on my photos, just let me know.

founder of SGGURLS
Kik nicolesingslave



2017 in retrospective

December 28, 2017

chiaotzu_02.jpg Defending Chiatzu
2017 started out fending for a persona-non-grata who had a big fight with a drunk and alienated the whole trans community.
Let's call the smelly old man Chiatzu. Chiatzu has a toxic personality and will pretty much fuck anything that has a heartbeat. That explains the STD Chiatzu picked up.

Insidious Little Panda

Little Panda is quite the insidious devil. She was made an admin of SGGURLS, and in return, she tossed me out. I got back in through some miracle. She quit. Lil Panda actually more like big Panda has always had lots of little groups which she never grew beyond 30 members. Good at starting but a lousy finisher. Maybe that's her story in bed as well. Lil Panda has finally succeeded with a football group. I can't get angry at someone who took the trash from SGGURLS.

Slide1.JPG20181228_Des.jpgConfused loyalty

Confused Loyalty (CL) had been the life of SGGURLS. I have witnessed 10 years of a volatile emotional rollercoaster. I guess it must be from hauling all those big planes. She traveled to Thailand and Philippines with Lil Panda. On one hand, she wants to support Lil Panda but she's got one hand in SGGURLS. When the two plane move apart, CL plopped hard onto the ground.

SGGURLS had a very quiet 10 year anniversary. Mostly because I was unmotivated to arrange anything. Many new gurls send me emails asking me this and that. Unfortunately, the emails are mixed with a lot of rubbish. So none gets answered. I am the biggest fan of deleteall. In the past, I hardly had photos of myself. I just like taking photos together with other people. It's just nicer. Since jettisoning my Posse, I've gone solo in my pics. I discovered the reason for so much rubbish in my mailbox this year. I have half a million followers since going solo. My ad on locanto is less than a year old and has 23K views. I can't professed to understand people's fascination with me. I would have rather deflected them to SGGURLS. The benefit from all the attention is that I am spoilt for choices for dates.
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SGGURLS 2017-10 meet: A Rayne from the past, idols and bad lighting

October 16, 2017

LOL that’s probably the worst lighting this year. I am glad that I can be the inspiration for Shanica.

This picture taken by a darling from the past. I am so glad to see Rayne after so many years.
It was a Monday so quite a few of our gurls came after work and couldn’t dress. It’s not necessary to dress. Just come out and have a couple of drinks.

My handsome soldier dropped by to say hi and bye. “Hey, you’re not such a tigress after all.” LOL, best comment of the night.

SGGURLS, local transgender group:





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Mel Gibson gets Candy

September 28, 2017

A great BDSM play got spoilt by an afternoon curry. I got back from Mel’s and emptied my stomach. Food poisoning?

Mel had Candy and I had the 15 year old whisky. A good nightcab that hopefully gives me a great orgasmic dream.

kik nicolesingslave

Blowing the Monday’s Blues

September 18, 2017

Blowing the Monday’s Blues

 The best medicine to blow away the Monday’s Blues is to go see the most beautiful girl in Singapore. It may be on a moment’s spur but I could slurp her soft lips till time’s end.

I understand now why so many men lust over her. I am tje lucky gurl to date my beautiful mate in a bar not for straights. To answer Max Botkin, what happened to Monday? She’s with me.. ha ha…

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Visiting the Princess

August 22, 2017

One year passed since I went to the Princess.


For those who don’t know, Princess Ammy is the real thing. She’s the Queen of Cane and a well known SM celebrity in the world.


It’s the ropes for a squirmer like me.


I am such a baby even for a 7 stroker. Pic of my checkered butt,


If you love bondage, bdsm, contact me. I use KIK nicolesingslave.



A BDSM session with Mel Gibson

June 30, 2017

Work, travel, flu, and a bad fall were reasons that almost made my meet with “Mel Gibson” a sell out. The sun was out, so I took Mel’s invitation.

Mel has a nice style. He booked a posh place to play.

We chatted awhile and then it’s time to let my submissive side out. Mel’s bondage gears are exquisite. I can wear this all day.

It was the best play in 2017. So it’s a thumbs up and a big smile.

Nicole is a founder of several groups.
Singapore Transgender group, SGGURLS,
and several bdsm groups Singapore and Asia

Play photos are here:
Vanilla photos here:

Finally back on my feet

June 26, 2017

20170623_004.jpgI had a real bad fall last week.The gash is quite a foot long. and ran quite deep.
Lucky for me I had a couple of tricks up my sleeve. Most worrisome was my left lower leg felt numb.
Being permamently paralyzed wasn’t far from my mind.
Wiith an ungainly left gait and a gaping scar, I had been very reluctaant to leave the house. I have been kinda of moody for the whole week. Finally my best friend had enough my melancholy and urged me to get dress for dinner rather than just louging around the house. I tried my favorite pair of red heels. Not exactly elegant but it’s nice to get back into my size 7.

We did end up going to our favorite restaurant in Joo Chiat which I have not gone for about a week.
20170626_025.jpg As long as I am mobile again, the scar is a small price.

Meeting a new sista and Mel Gibson  

May 22, 2017
It’s been awhile that I’ve had a great meet.
So neat to to say that  I met “Mel Gibson” in May eventhough
I made a boo boo as I couldn’t tell Tantric from Taboo.
Mel doesn’t like his pic taken.

I met a new sista just beginning on a new discovery.

A great starter, as I also found a slow dance partner.
I did post for a meet in April. Those that messaged me on FB or KIK (nicolesingslave) .. we danced,
had fun and we got some leads on a new BDSM adventure.
I trully believe that a princess can have have her cake by the ocean. 🙂

I run a local Singapore trangender group call SGGURLS. We’re admirer friendly.
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You can also contact me via kik nicolesingslave

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April 2017 Moderator Meet: the aftermath

April 18, 2017

It’s our first moderator meeting after the departure of the old guards. An aftermath that spells start over. I am the old gurl in the group and the generation gap is big. I saw one of the gurls grow up and now living full time as a transwoman. SGGURLS was started when the phone and camera were two different devices and the phones looked like a brick. One of the mods commented that you still look the same as 10 years ago. (LOL jialat no progress).

Key on the night’s agenda were that happened and what the splinter group is doing. Typical of me, I address the simple one first.
What the splinter group is doing? I really don’t know and don’t care. There are many groups before and after the birth of SGGURLS. Here’s a listing contemporary trans groups:
Groups are created when people gravitate to each other. When the chemistry is gone, people go their own way. That’s just life. The more groups that exist in Singapore or SE Asia, the better it is for the LGBT community. Diversity means more options.

SGGURLs event if organized by me will always be indoors, fully airconditioned, quiet places with enough ambient music. Of course, some of the members out grew my taste.

The new football club does BBQ and beer guzzling events, Super for people who love sweat, outdoors and getting drunk. I am a lounge lizard and outdoors …naaahhhh. Beer? Naaaahhhhh.

Prior to football club was the Secret Agent Group of gurls who parties in high end clubs. LOL, ya I know about the not so secret agent club and their secret changing place in Parkway Center, right Agent K?

There was also a group of gurls who set up an apartment in Paya Lebar with a nominal fee where gurls can dress up, rent a locker to store their stuff. That was a good idea but with high rental in Singapore it’s got to cater to a much wider audience to be commercially viable.

SIS is an activist group set up artist Marla Bendini and talented designer Trisha (designer of our SGGURLS) group. SIS champions transgender rights and represents us in PinkDot.

My last mention was the group that organized the trans Pagent. Great idea but after the first pagent, the organizers (most of are from SGGURLS) fizzled out.

What happened in SGGURLS that caused the old guards to be ejected? There were 1 co-founder (Adaline) and 5 gurls ejected.  Co-founder Adaline was expelled, for two reasons and they are related to the two SGGURL events she organized. The first was the BBQ event which she promoted with much fanfare, later said was cancelled but actually took place. The second was SGGURLS March meet which she had grandly advertised, on the day of the event abandoned and lied to me that she had attend to something urgent. Something urgent meant a catastrophy that involved the emergency room. Being in some bar in Golden Mile does not qualify as catastrophic. The other 5 members were the gurls who engaged in cyber bullying. These explusions can be temporary if the gurls acknowledges their mistake and don’t them. To err is human and to forgive is divine.

As the founder of SGGURLS, the problem is squarely on my breasts. An absent leader is not much of a leader. This will continue to plague SGGURLS as work eats up my whole life. I do wish I can just up and leave to correct the biggest problem in my life: being born in the wrong gender. Unfortunately, SRS is not the end journey and thinking of the journey after next keeps me up at night toling away. Being just a pretty face won’t pay the bills. This is third team that is running SGGURLS. Maybe third time is the charm and my successor is in plain sight.20170418_013.jpg